Leave Em Speechless

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.”

Galatians 5:22–23

I have been seeing the following quote that last few days on social media, “People remember how you make them feel.” What would happen if everyone in the world woke up today with the goal of making an impact and not an impression in the lives of others? Thats not a play on words, I’m talking about the motivation of why we do what we do. People in general who seek to make an impression on others for the most part want others to think kindly of them. That’s not necessarily a bad thing unless the reason for our wanting to make a good impression is just so we can feel good about ourselves. When we sincerely focus on the other people we don’t just make an impression, we make an impact which is far better and longer lasting.  

Are you aware that one of the best ways to impact peoples lives with the Gospel of Jesus Christ is through acts of kindness? Romans 2:4 teaches us, “Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness (kindness) of God leads you to repentance.” I read a quote recently that said, “Unexpected kindness is magical” and it’s true. Kindness, be it in the form of random acts or in deliberate well thought out plans are not only life changing, they can be life giving. One such story comes to mind.

The story of Mephibosheth in the Old Testament is a wonderful reminder of the impact of human kindness. Mephibosheth was a son of Jonathan, the son of King Saul. Jonathan and David were the best of friends and years after Jonathan and Saul were killed in battle David was looking back over his life and as he thought about his friend he asked if there was anyone still alive in Jonathan’s family that David could show kindness on behalf of his friend. David’s servants discovered there was one person, a young man who was crippled in both his feet since the age of five when his caretaker dropped him as they fled after his father Jonathan and grandfather Saul were killed in battle as they feared for their lives. David sent word through his servants for Mephibosheth to come before the king.

Mephibosheth feared for his life knowing that the common practice of the day would mean sure death for him as with each new monarchy and change of power it usually meant that any remaining heirs of the previous monarchy were killed to prevent any insurrection from arising. Yet when Mephibosheth came before King David we learn in 2 Samuel 9:7, “So David said to him, “Do not fear, for I will surely show you kindness for Jonathan your father’s sake, and will restore to you all the land of Saul your grandfather; and you shall eat bread at my table continually.”

Let’s be people of impact today and look for people to show kindness today because the kindness that has been shown to us by the Lord. The quote, “unexpected kindness is magical” means the kindness shown to others is completely unexpected by the recipient, maybe even the very opposite of what they think they should receive and deserve. Isn’t that what the gospel is all about and why we call it Good News? When we experience the impact of God’s kindness shown to us in Jesus Christ, it draws us closer to Him and often times leaves us speechless just like David in Psalm 8:3-4,

“When I consider Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, the moon and the stars, which You have ordained, what is man that You are mindful of him, and the son of man that You visit him?”



Michael Osthimer




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